It requires preparation, consideration, confidence, and awareness of one’s physical and sexual self. What should you do the first time you use a sex toy? You should want to, and you should follow our guide! By following these steps, you will be able to experience the pleasure and sensations that only the insertion of a sex toy can bring. Once you experience these pleasures, all doubts about playing with sex toys will disappear. I promise!
Several scientific studies confirm what some of us already know: sex toys are incredibly pleasurable. The anus and the surrounding area are high in nerve endings that, when stimulated, produce intense sensations. But scientific studies alone are not enough to break taboos. These barriers will only be broken when people embrace their sexuality and finally shout from the rooftops: “We love sex toys!” So, who’s in it? If you still have doubts, don’t worry. What do we do when fears and doubts prevent us from trying something new? Simply put, we face them!
So you have a sex toy and can’t experience anything but pleasure!
A common fear among sex toy novices involves pain. This is natural since experiencing something in your ass for the first time is weird. Luckily, there are simple and easy ways to use sex toys comfortably and without pain. All it takes is some preparation.
Relax!
The anus does not naturally get wet. That is why you need to penetrate your ass differently than your vagina. This area contains muscles and many nerve endings, making the whole area sensitive to touch, which is why sex toys feel so good. The downside is that these muscles can get tight if you are not relaxed. This can cause pain, so the most important thing when using a sex toy for the first time is to relax. Playing with sex toys is only fun if you want to. Therefore, it is important to let go and make sure there is deep trust between you and your partner.
First time using sex toys
If you have never used a sex toy before, don’t rush. Instead, work on it slowly. Have a little chat with your partner and discuss what you want to do together to get excited! When you are ready, try playing with a sex toy or your fingers. It is normal for couples to reach full penetration only after trying a sex toy a few times.