There is a lot of discussion about male masturbation and what motivates men to engage in erotic sex, and the topic has become entirely normal. However, the same is not true when it comes to the reality of female masturbation, as if this type of erotic sexual pleasure is something wrong or shameful.
Not only is female masturbation nothing to be ashamed of, it is an entirely normal part of sexual health. Not only can clitoral stimulation greatly enhance pleasure, but it can also help reduce stress and improve sleep.
How to get started
Before having sex, you need to eroticize your entire body and make sure you are in the right state of mind and environment for sex time. You can set the mood by dimming or adjusting the lights, lighting candles, watching ethical porn, listening to audio porn, or listening to your favorite songs to enjoy visual stimulation.
Don’t rush; let your mind wander and play with yourself while enjoying erotic sex. Imagine what turns you on. Explore your hot spots and find out what turns you on the most to build sexual tension. Always keep a few drops of masturbation lubricant handy in case you need it.
Types of erotic sex
Clitoral stimulation means touching the clitoris. Depending on your preference when you have clitoral sex, you feel a tingling sensation on your skin and in your brain.
This can also be done with your fingers or a mini vibrator, depending on your preference. When you have intense sexual sex (also known as orgasm), your vaginal walls pulsate, and you feel it deeper in your body
For anal sex, you can use a sex toy if you like deeper penetration, or you can use your fingers if penetration (or deep penetration) is not essential to your erotic sex. In this case, use a water-based lubricant for internal stimulation, as this body part does not moisten. You may feel a strong urge to urinate just before intercourse, but the contractions occur around the anal sphincter.
If you want to experience clitoral intercourse, try this method
First, directly stimulate the fleshy area above the pubic bone, and then run your fingers along the external and internal vulva. Start rubbing the clitoris through the foreskin. You can also make a “V” shape with your index and middle fingers and slide them up and down the clitoris. Once your clitoris is wet or after applying lube, move your finger faster and harder, applying firm pressure until you reach an erotic clitoris, which will increase your sexual satisfaction.
